Because everyone “knows” that Minnesota Nice is merely a saying and that the fine folks that inhabit the Northland are some of the most passive aggressive you’ll find, I’ve found it increasingly hard to “prove” my genuine feelings about things - especially things people may assume people may be upset about.
For example, I want my friends to be happy and healthy. I want them to be in caring and loving relationships - even if that person is someone who I’ve had a relationship with. I’ve dated great people but if it didn’t work out for us, and I truly cared about you, why would I want you to be anything less than happy? I do believe this, yet I’ve found myself getting that - ‘oh you don’t really mean that’ look from lots of people lately. Annoying.
Also, enough no sleep end of the day rants. I’m going back to posting pictures of cats and sloths :)